diaphragmatic breathing

check yourself in ten seconds

Put one palm on your chest and the other on your belly, just above the navel. Breathe the way you normally breathe, without correcting yourself, and see which hand moves.

• The lower one moves — you’re already breathing with the diaphragm. That’s how it should be.
• The upper one moves — your breathing is chest breathing. It’s fast and shallow, and that’s exactly what breathing becomes under anxiety.
• Both move — the usual mixed pattern, and it’s the one to shift downwards.

It’s worth doing this check before every practice at first: it takes ten seconds and shows you immediately where you are.

how to do it

1. Lie down or sit comfortably. Lying down is easier to learn: your back is supported and your belly is free. Knees can be bent.
2. Palms in place — one on the chest, the other on the belly.
3. Breathe out calmly, all the way, without squeezing.
4. Breathe in through the nose for 5 counts. Send the air downwards: the belly moves forward and the palm on it rises. The upper palm stays almost still.
5. Breathe out through the nose for 5 counts. The belly softens back down. If the out-breath comes out a little longer by itself, let it — no need to correct it.
6. Shoulders stay down. If they’ve gone up, the in-breath was too big. And watch your back: slouching presses on the diaphragm, and the belly stops moving freely.
7. Five minutes. That’s thirty cycles at 5-5.

The point here is direction. Diaphragmatic breathing gets confused with deep breathing, and people start filling their chest to the top. What that produces is hyperventilation: the head goes light, you feel you can’t get enough air, and anxiety climbs instead of easing — the mechanics are in why you can’t breathe when anxious. The in-breath is calm, of ordinary size, it simply goes downwards.

5-5 isn’t the only rhythm. A common alternative is four in and six to eight out: an exhale longer than the inhale pulls harder towards rest. Some people add a one- or two-second pause at the top of the inhale. Both are fine, but equal phases are the easier start — while your attention is on the belly, counting two different lengths is a nuisance.

why the belly and not the chest

The diaphragm is a large muscle beneath the lungs. When it drops, the lungs fill from below, where there’s more blood flow, and gas exchange is more efficient. You can breathe less often — and therefore more calmly.

A slow out-breath with a working diaphragm raises the activity of the vagus nerve, the one responsible for putting the brakes on. The all-clear comes from the mechanics of the breath rather than from your head, which is why it gets through even when talking yourself round doesn’t.

Chest breathing does the opposite: it’s fast, shallow, and it recruits the muscles of the neck and shoulders. The body reads that pattern as anxiety — and takes it as confirmation.

which rhythm to pair it with

The method is what you breathe with. The rhythm is the count you breathe to. They stack:

• 5-5. The most even option and the best start — six cycles a minute. More on it in resonance breathing.
• 4-4-8. When you need to settle more: the long out-breath slows the heart more noticeably.
• 4-7-8. In the evening, to fall asleep. Covered in 4-7-8 breathing.
• Box breathing. When you need to gather yourself and stay sharp. How to do it — in box breathing.

Best to start with 5-5 and no holds: at the beginning a hold pulls attention away from the belly, and the belly is exactly what you’re watching.

if the belly doesn’t move

For the first few days it may barely move — that’s normal, the muscle is out of practice. It helps to lie down and put a book on your belly: you can see what your hand can’t yet feel.

The belly should come forward by itself, because the diaphragm has dropped. Pushing it out by force gets you tension where you wanted the opposite.

If your head spins after a few minutes, the in-breaths are too big. Halve the volume and keep the rhythm.

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